I send him a message again. Maybe she's busy and needs to know I'm thinking about her. I check to see if it has been activated online. To see. I send him a sequence of messages, one of which is clearly too intense but I send it anyway I don't do anything. She will respond when she can. I don't want to be intrusive. I live my life and wait for her to come back. No question of appearing too available. I wonder if she's okay and if she needs anything.

I surprise him I plan times I say things out loud I try to always be there when she needs me. Available. All the time. I tell him exactly what I feel even if it's too intense. Authenticity above all. I remember the little details and use them to show her that I really see her I'm teasing. I'm looking for it a bit. It's my way of interacting with people I like. I make sure she's okay. His life is better because I'm in it.

I'm struggling but I'm living to the fullest. It hurts hard and fast and I move on with the same energy. I have a lot of trouble breaking contact. I continue to follow from afar to make sure she is okay. It blows up in my face and everyone hears it. I don't hide anything about what I feel. I accept it silently and keep the memories to myself. It's not visible but it takes time. I distance myself quickly. To show that it affects me would be to lose face. I make sure she's okay before thinking about how I feel.

I tell him directly. No time to waste on innuendo. I create opportunities to cross paths. I arrange to be in his environment. I act on impulse. I can send a very direct message at 11 p.m. without thinking too much. I create a link gradually. Direct words make me uncomfortable but I am truly present. I make sure she is interested in me first. I am never the first to declare. I start by becoming the person she can count on. The rest comes naturally.

I talk to the person I trust about it. I express myself. I talk about it with the person I love. His opinion matters the most. It comes out on its own. I don't filter too much so people around quickly know that it's not okay. I keep it to myself most of the time. I don't want to burden others. I manage alone. Admitting a problem is exposing yourself and I don't like that. I deal with it alone first so as not to worry those I love with it.

I put everything on the table. We talk about it frankly even if it's uncomfortable. I'm doing everything to make it better. I don't want to lose this relationship. This gives rise to an intense scene. But then we start again on a better basis. I remain present without forcing the discussion. The tension dissolves over time if we stay close. I take some distance to analyze what is wrong before coming back with a cooler head. I wonder what I can do differently to make things better for both of us.

Something big and memorable. A moment she won't forget. I plan everything so that it is perfect. The dinner details the atmosphere. Everything is thought. It's improvised but sincere. Maybe too much. But it comes from the heart 100%. A very personal gift based on something she once said without believing I had heard Something cool but already. I don't want to seem too invested. I organize something around what makes her happy. Not mine.

I get carried away too quickly and sometimes expect too much from others I can be intrusive without meaning to because I'm afraid of losing the people I love My intensity is scary. I feel everything strongly and it's obvious. I don't say enough of what I need to say. People have to guess and that creates misunderstandings. I have a hard time being vulnerable. I keep a distance even from the people I love. I give too much without saying when I need something in return.

I tell her clearly that I am here and that I want to help her if she wants I stay close physically or by message. I want her to know I'm not leaving. I tell her exactly how I feel about her and try to make her smile even awkwardly. I am present without talking too much. Just there. Sometimes it matters more than words. I offer him something concrete to do together to change his ideas I put my own concerns aside and focus entirely on her

Not feeling the same intensity as the other. Being more invested than in front of you. That someone I love leaves one day without me understanding why That my intensity ends up scaring away someone I really loved That the other never really understands what I feel because I don't know how to say it To invest myself completely and find myself vulnerable if it doesn't work To have given too much for a long time without it counting for the other